My name is Fallon*. I am a single mom of four children age 11, 10, 9 and 7. I work full time and go to school full time pursuing nursing. My story has been far from perfect, but I am a grateful believer in Jesus Christ. I have struggled with domestic violence, drug abuse, losing custody of my children, and health challenges followed by a lot of personal growth. Every part of my story has shaped who I am today. My faith has become the foundation that holds everything together.
I came to The Vine in October 2023. After surviving domestic violence and substance abuse for several years, I finally was able to escape. My cousin allowed me and three of my children to come live with her in Oklahoma City, which in turn led to her seeing a news article of a previous mom here at The Vine. I applied, and within a few weeks, we were moving in! I am happy to say that after five years of being separated, my fourth child moved in with us in March 2025!
I came to The Vine during a time when I needed stability, support, and a fresh start for myself and my children. I wanted a safe, structured environment where I could focus on healing, growing, and building a better future. The Vine gave me that opportunity.
The biggest adjustment was learning to live in a community with other women. I was used to handling everything on my own. Being surrounded by other women and families, sharing space, routines, and accountability was rough, but it stretched me in a good way. It taught me I do not have to do life alone. I love the sense of support and safety. There is comfort in knowing you are surrounded by people who genuinely care about your growth and your children’s well-being. I also appreciate the structure. It has helped me stay focused on my goals.
I “phased up” in November 2025, so my children and I get to live independently in our 3-bedroom duplex. It has been so amazing! It gave me that sense of independence that I think I needed to remember my overall goal — to buy a home for my children and me.
I am proud of myself because I did not quit. Even when life felt overwhelming — working full time, going to school full time, raising four children — I kept going. I am proud that I chose growth instead of staying stuck. My goal is to complete nursing school and continue growing professionally in healthcare. I want to provide stability for my children and eventually use my story to encourage others who are also starting over. I want my life to reflect redemption and resilience.
Prayer Requests
Please pray for strength and endurance as I balance work, school and motherhood. Pray for continued spiritual growth and deeper trust in God. Pray for my children to continue to feel safe, confident and loved.
Will you join us in bringing love into action for children and families across Oklahoma by seeking help or giving to one of our programs that matter to you?
*Name changed to protect privacy.